Conversation "gap" .... A Big Problem !!!

In a modern era , we have a large number of facilities which made our lives easier . The most important facility which i like to mention is The INTERNET . As the net specially "social media" has a big impact on our lives . The Good thing thing about social media is that it has connected us with our friends and families living far away . But it has also created gaps and distances , in short , social media is responsible for " conversation gap " which is a big problem .

Mostly people do or want to solve their problems by posting them on socical media (instead of conversing) like Facebook , Twitter etc . But the reality is the social media users dont have any concern about your problems . They just see and ignore and the fact is your problem will be exaggerated if u converse or discuss it not with just one person but share it with too many perosns . So that thing (posting problems on soial media)  has created a conversation gap , and this gap leads many people towards depression . 

Why conversation is important , Why this conversation gap needs to be filled ??? Actually a conversation is a Food for Soul . Its important to converse only with that person who wants to listen to you because "every good conversation starts with a good listening" so through conversation your most of the problems will be solved . As i experienced , every person's soul and mind is starving for deep , rich , authentic , intellectual and spiritual conversations , so u cant fed it up by spreading your problems on social media instead of conversing . 

  What are the "Ways" to Converse ???   Conversing to a *person* is not only the way to fill a convversation gap and to reduce depression because some people just dont want to meet to people or talk to them also some people dont have any sincere friend . There are two other ways too . The best way  which will i recommend is a PRAY because prayer is simply a two way conversation between YOU and GOD . The other way is to just WRITE  down in your diary because sometimes its the only paper that will listen you . Write your thoughts on the paper (neg or pos) , as writing is easy so all you have to do is to cross out the sad happenings , the critical words said by others , your negative thoughts and wrong words which will make or had made your life worse . Just apply these two ways (like i did) . It will surely help you in reducing depression and sadness and also filling the conversation gap which is really important .

In the end , just stop spreading your problems on social media , it will gain u NOTHING and start filling the gap of conversation .

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The Purpose Of Life and Failures

God has created every person in this world for a "reason" so, if anyone say to you that you are Nothing just show them that you are Something . God didnt create anything useless in this world so why will he create His person useless ?

To find the purpose of life it is foremost to see inside yourself , to study yourself and to ask yourself that why are you Created ?  To get purpose of life it is important to dream first . Dream of something that you are passionate about . 

Most importantly ,  Believe in yourself . If you have started believing in your self then just dont care what people  say about you because their words will fade but you will not . Donot fear of being alone also donot try to copy others because everyone is unique just like the fingers of your hand .

In my opinion , if a person doesnot find his purpose of life then there is no big difference between him and an animal because animal eat , sleep and die same as that sluggish person .

If you are passionate about something but the door is still close then Be Patient because Big things takes time . Also if you have a passion then God will surely open the close door for you . 

In finding purpose of our lives , we face failures . We fall down . Falling down is not a big problem but donot getting Up is a big problem . In a circle of our life we make mistakes so donot regret just learn from your mistakes . We face adversities , it doesnt matter but our reaction towards that adversity matters alot . In our lives we meet different people some leaves us but some stick together , just learn from them because the lesson which we can learn from people cannot be teached by any book .